For Family and Friends
Supporting a Survivor of Sexual Assault
As a friend, family member, or partner of a survivor of sexual assault, you play an important role in the survivor’s recovery. What you say to the survivor and what you do are important and can impact the survivor in positive or harmful ways.
Below are some ways that you can contribute to the survivor’s healing, as well as some things to avoid.
DO SAY:
- I believe you
- You are not alone
- I will support you
- It wasn’t your fault
- I’m sorry this happened to you
- Thank you for telling me
- I am here for you if you want to talk
- You did what you had to do to survive
- Can I do anything for you?
