Additional Links and Resources

Durham Services

Catholic Family Services of Durham
905-725-3135, 1-877-282-8932,
http://www.cfsdurham.com

Women’s Multicultural Resource and Counselling Centre of Durham
905-427-7849, 1-888-454-4035
http://www.wmrccdurham.org

Victim Services
1-888-579-1520 ext. 3400

Durham Regional Police Services
905-579-1520, 1-888-579-1520
http://www.drps.ca


Books

General Information

Our Little Secret: Confronting Child Sexual Abuse in Canada
By Judy Steed

For Survivors of Sexual Abuse

Beginning to Heal:  Revised Edition:   A First Book for Men and Women who were Sexually Abused as Children
By Ellen Bass, Laura Davis.
This book may be helpful for you if you are new to the healing process. You may find this book a good introduction to the healing process.

The Courage To Heal: A Guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse
By Ellen Bass, Laura Davis
The Courage to Heal can be a comprehensive guide for both survivors and their support networks. This can be quite an intense read for survivors so please take your time and nurture yourself.

The Right to Innocence: Healing the Trauma of Childhood Sexual Abuse: A Therapeutic 7-Step Self-Help Program for Men and Women, Including How to Choose a Therapist and Find a Support Group
By Beverly Engel
As a trained therapist and sufferer of sexual abuse herself, Beverly Engel knows that there is probably no trauma a child can suffer that makes her or him feel more alone than sexual abuse. This helpful book offers hope for recovery with exercises, visualizations, and techniques that support you through a seven-step program, which will aid you in: facing the truth, releasing your anger, confronting those responsible with facts and feelings, forgiving yourself, and more healing advice and information.

I Never Told Anyone: Writings by Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse
By Ellen Bass, Louise Thornton

It is a deeply moving collection of first person narratives of survivors of childhood sexual assault, not recommended to those who are new to the healing process.

It Happened to Me: A Teen’s Guide to Overcoming Sexual Abuse
By William Lee Carter
This is a workbook written specifically for teens and those who support them.

How Long Does It Hurt: A Guide to Recovering from Incest and Sexual Abuse for Teenagers, Their Friends, and Their Families
By Cynthia L. Mather
Illustrator: Judy Wood
As told by: Kristina E. Debye

This is a bestselling book written by a survivor for other survivors, specifically teens to help overcome/work through feelings such as confusion, self doubt and isolation.

In Their Own Words: A sexual abuse workbook for teenage girls
By Lulie Munson and Karen Riskin

The Sexual Trauma Workbook for Teen Girls:  A Guide to Recovery from Sexual Assault and Abuse
By Raychelle Cassada Lohmann and Sheela Raja

An empowering workbook for working through trauma.

Sexuality and Intimacy

The Sexual Healing Journey: A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse (3rd Edition)
By Wendy Maltz 
This book provides a guide, various materials and resources to help one on their healing journey and to reclaim sex as safe, loving and enjoyable.

Survivor’s Guide to Sex: How to Create Your Own Empowered Sexuality after Childhood Sexual Abuse
By Staci Haines
This book focuses on healthy sexuality and intimacy after sexual abuse.

For Males who have experienced Sexual Assault/Abuse

Victims No Longer: The Classic Guide for Men Recovering from Sexual Child Abuse
By Mike Lew 
A resource manual for male survivors and those who wish to support them.

Abused Boys: The Neglected Victims of Sexual Abuse
By Mic Hunter
A psychologist examines the physical and emotional impact of abuse on its victims and the factors affecting recovery. This study explains the ways in which boys are molested and the reasons why men remain silent about it later in life. A well-researched and well written book.

For Family, Friends and Partners

Ghosts in the Bedroom: A Guide for Partners of Incest Survivors
By Ken Graber

This book provides guidance and comfort for partners of survivors of sexual assault/abuse.

Allies in Healing: When the Person You Love Was Sexually Abused as a child, a Support Book
Laura Davis
An in depth resource for those who support a survivor of sexual abuse.

Families in Recovery: Healing the damage of Childhood Sexual Abuse
By Beverly Engel

A guide for siblings and parents of survivors of childhood sexual abuse, on how to provide support in a mutual way.


Videos

Boys of St. Vincent
The true story of boys being sexually, emotionally and physically abused at their orphanage ran by a religious community in Newfoundland.

Vagina Monologues (play by Eve Ensler)
Contains moving feminist perspectives on rape in war torn countries as well as our attitudes towards our own bodies. Many college/university campuses put on annual Theater presentations of this play for V-Day. Check you local college/university or search to find the next production near you.

Searching for Angela Shelton
“In “Searching for Angela Shelton,” filmmaker Angela Shelton journeys across the United States to meet other Angela Sheltons and through them survey women in America. What she wasn’t prepared for was to learn that like herself, 24 out of the 40 Angela Sheltons she spoke to had been raped, beaten or molested. The first Angela Shelton the filmmaker meets rents out space to a foster care company and it brings up the filmmaker’s memories of being in a foster home as a child. Then there is an Angela Shelton who tracks sexual predators and just happens to live in the same town as the filmmaker’s father who molested her and her stepsiblings for years.”

North Country (a fictionalized account of the 1st major successful sexual harassment case in the U.S.)
“What Josey Aimes wants is a decent job so she can put food on the table and take care of her kids. What she gets is threatened, insulted, ogled, fondled, belittled, attacked and called filthy names. “Take it like a man,” her callous male boss says. Instead, she takes it like a human being – and fights back. Charlize Theron portrays Josey in North Country, the searing story of women who broke the gender barrier laboring in hazardous Minnesota iron mines… and broke legal ground with the nation’s first class-action sexual-harassment lawsuit. Frances McDormand, Sissy Spacek, Woody Harrelson and Sean Bean star with Theron in this emotionally explosive tale of taking on the odds to achieve what every a range of abuse while working as a miner filed and won the landmark 1984 lawsuit.”


Other Links

Ontario Coalition of Rape Crisis Centres
Includes general information on Sexual Violence, as well links to Rape Crisis Centre’s across Ontario. sexualassaultsupport.ca

Rape Abuse & Incest National Network
The largest U.S. based anti-sexual violence organization. www.rainn.org/

Action ontarienne contre la violence faite aux femmes (AOcVF)
www.francofemmes.org/aocvf/

Ontario Women’s Justice Network (OWJN)
Legal information on issues related to violence against women.
www.owjn.org

The Metropolitan Action Committee on Violence Against Women and Children (METRAC)
METRAC is a not-for-profit, community-based organization that works to prevent and end violence against diverse women, youth, and children.
www.metrac.org

Shelternet – For Abused Women
http://www.povnet.org/node/3728

Centre for Research & Education on Violence Women and Children
The Centre promotes the development of community-centred, action research on violence against women and children. The Centre’s role is to facilitate the cooperation of individuals, groups and institutions representing the diversity of the community to pursue research questions and training opportunities to understand and prevent abuse.
www.crvawc.ca

PAR-L – A Canadian Electronic Feminist Network
www.unb.ca/PAR-L/index.htm

DisAbled Women’s Network Ontario (DAWN)
DAWN is a feminist organization whose mission is to generate information, knowledge and skills to advance the inclusion and equality right of women and girls with disabilities.

English http://www.dawncanada.net/en/
French http://www.dawncanada.net/

CLEO – Community Legal Education Ontario
provides clear, accurate and practical legal rights, education and info to help people understand and exercise their legal rights
http://www.cleo.on.ca 

Ontario Native Women’s Association (ONWA)
http://www.onwa.ca

Ontario Women’s Health Network (OWHN)
www.owhn.on.ca

ACAS – Asian Community AIDS Services
www.acas.org

Ontario Coalition of Agencies Serving Immigrants
www.ocasi.org

Native Women’s Resource Centre
416-963-9963
http://www.nwrct.ca

SOS Femmes
http://www.sosfemmes.com